Golden Principles in an FWB Relationship

All the time, the boundary between lovers and friends are blurred. Many adult friend finders will cross the boundary and enter the opposite field. When I wake up this morning, a song that can summarize my life haunts me. Such a crazy thing! It was in middle school where I met him. At that time, we are only friends and nothing more! However, with time passing by, something changed in a ball. From the beginning, we just talk to each other like any other friends. When the darkness falls upon, we start to flirt with each other. A vague and romantic atmosphere is lingering between us. During the two months after that, we begin to have sex often without commitment. He is not my boyfriend, so do I. We don’t make promise to each other and it seems to be a perfect deal. Don’t get me wrong. This causal FWB relationship requires you to treat it sincerely and carefully. The following rules are for causal encounters to refer to.

1. Protect yourself

No matter how you assure yourself that your quick flirt date is safe and reliable, you need to protect yourself all the time. You should form a habit when you date with others. No adult affair finders want to bear a baby in the campus and we need to try all our best to avoid the sexual illness from spreading as well. And if he has multiple FWBs at the same time, then the risk for your catching the decrease will increase. In addition to the physical protection, the spiritual protection is equally important.

2. Just restrict your relationship in the bedroom

No matter which type of NSA relationship you are staying in, you must make sure that sexual enjoyment is all what you need. That is to say, you need to keep your relationships in the bedroom. Fewer people know your relationship, lower risks you will take on. Therefore, don’t show off your relationship or upload his pictures in any social media.

3. Don’t introduce your FWB to your family

Once you decide to maintain an FWB relationship with your friend, you should make clear that he is not compatible with your social life any longer. You can imagine that if one of your relatives or friends knows him, they will talk about him in front of you from time to time. Thus, man small details will remind you of him which not a good signal is.

4. Don’t get angry if he is dating others

When observing one of your friends dating others, will you get raged? Obviously not! Keep in mind that he is just your friends, not a boyfriend. Thus, there is no reason for you to get angry when you find that he has other sexual partners. You must take control of or suppress your jealousy. In order to avoid this relationship going in the wrong direction, you can adjust your mentality.