Great Ways to Manage a Good FWB Relationship

It's a familiar scene - you hook up with a hot girl you know through a common adult friend. Unfortunately, you are not ready to make a commitment because you just ended a serious relationship with your ex boyfriend, who is having sex with his colleagues. You're afraid to be judged for seeing a new person so soon. Now, you just want to keep your heart away from the heartache of breaking up.

1. Stop and think about it

Are you really ready to build a FWB relationship, or do you just want to fill a gap in your relationship with a rebound relationship, hoping that this relationship will eventually evolve into a forever happy relationship? If you're just for sex and nothing else, that's great. But if you still have the idea that the man you first date will somehow become a happy person, you need to pat him on the face. Are you awake now? OK, you're ready to read on.

2. Be honest from the beginning

So it's clear that you both enjoy the sex and you're sure you want it to continue. Take any chance to be honest with him. Tell him you're not ready for a committed relationship and you don't want to get married. Tell him you just want to have sex. He will accept it, it's a guarantee - after all, no one will refuse a voluntary friend. It's a win-win situation, right?

3. Clarify your expectations

Don't forget to draw the line so that you don't get too close to this adult friend finder! First of all, you should understand that in a friend of interest, you two are actually single and can do one thing! Your relationship with NSA is not monogamous or exclusive. For example, even if he or she receives a girl's hint and flirting message when he or she is with you, he or she should keep Zen and not show any emotion. Because essentially, you two are just friends! You don't have the right to question him, such as an emotionally attached wife or girlfriend, or feel angry and upset about his infidelity. He has the right to see anyone he wants without answering you. If you can respect that, anyway, let him be your FWB!

4. Protect your health

This is especially important when you meet people through common friends. Be careful that this can turn into a full-blown drama if (and when) the result is wrong. You don't want to risk friendship with common friends if things get worse with hot girls. Keep your FWB relationship as private as possible. Try not to reveal too much to your mutual friends and avoid the reputation of "kissing and talking". In addition, in front of your friends, draw a line between intimacy and special intimacy.